Lovelines,

I am a gal of 21 studying in one of the higher institutions.  I fell in love with a young man in the same institution that I along the line used my body language to woo. Our relationship rolled on smoothly until he reconciled with his ex whom he has claimed to be unfaithful to him throughout their approximate 8-year relationship.

Ours is just only five months old. His friends and family members love me and give me courage. Since his reconciliation with his ex, he stop responding to my call, he stopped me from coming to his house. His mother says she wants to be seeing me as usual and do something, while my problem is that I truly love him. My parents and relatives already know him and always ask about him. Did I need to be patient more and for how long? I am really lonely because he is my friend, and lover of no equal.

‘Bou,

If he has decamped from you and back to his old love I think you have no option than to let him go and act as if you are not hurt. As time goes on you will be able to forget about him. Probably he is not met for you so it is not a do or dies affair. Be yourself and put him behind you so that you will be able to find someone else better and lovely than him.

 Despite he claimed that she is unfaithful to him, he still love him just because love blind all men alike, both the reasonable and the foolish. So call it a past event but time will come you will bluff him because he will surely come back to you, remember the body language work and occupy brain faster than you can think of. Use it more often at sight he will surely turn back to you. Call if you don’t know the step. Good luck!

Lovelines,

I broke up with my girlfriend after she was accused by my friends of been unfaithful to me. This is the second time we are having this type of problem. But now that I decided to spend the rest of my life with her she rejects and said that there is new person in her life. What can I do?

Minteh,

There is nothing else you can do than to let the girl go and check for another girl. Remember that you can do very little with faith, but you can do nothing without it. According to Shakespeare “…love is blind, and lovers cannot see (when they are in love) the pretty follies that themselves commit.” So if you really love her before and want to spend your life with her, you would not have accept or allow your friends to talk foul of your babe or control you over her. Therefore, if you are able to get a new girlfriend do not allow your friends to control you over your lover, be a man of yourself when it comes to dating. Sometime there might be jealousy. Good luck!