IRIN irinnews.org - Brigitte Mukandoli wasa schoolgirl when a group of militias manning a roadblock near her village ofBishenyi, close to the Rwandan capital, Kigali, seized her.She was taken to a nearby village and raped by 10 men.One of the militia leaders asked her to make a choice: become a wife or bekilled. She became a wife. Later, she learnt that her family hadall been killed. That was in 1994. Now 32, Mukandoli is struggling to accept that it ispossible to forgive her tormentors. "There is no...» view full story