Lovelines,

I am a girl of 22 already engage. But most men don’t seem to understand that mostly now that I am searching for a job. There is this guy working in one of the offices where I submitted an application, he willingly said he will help me. Instead of him fulfilling his promise he wants to date and sleep with me. So far I decline he refused me the job but always call to create problem for me. I am fed up of this man!

Mai,

I pity your condition. You have joined the job seekers market this is what most people do face most time. Women face some sexual harassment while men face rejection and settlement (bribe offering). Some boss is turning job appointment to who’s who. So far you need a job be patient, keeps on praying you will surely get a job without condition from somewhere one day so far you are sure of yourself with your good qualification.

Since you are engage to a man already, please let him know what you do encounter when it comes to job search this will make him have believe in you should in case you have any of this unwanted calls from those selfish employers. Employers please give no love condition if there is any job vacancy there are some serious ladies and men outside there that will do your job to your satisfaction but a job given with intense condition most time bear no good fruit. Please if you have something this girl can do give a call to Lovelines, let’s be our brother/sister’s keeper. Good luck!